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The Attainment |
| Far, far away there was a small fishing village situated on the coast. And each day the people living in the village would go to the cliffs and watch the young men dive. The height that each dived from determined the status of their manhood. The highest diver was considered a hero by all, and would be the village leader. One day a mother was sitting on the beach with her daughter watching the boys and young men dive. The daughter turned to her mother and said, “I too would like to dive!” The mother looked down at her daughter and seeing herself in her said, “When I was your age I too wanted to dive.” “Why, didn’t you?” asked the daughter. “In those days girls were not allowed too! ” said the mother. “Is that what your going to say to me?” asked the daughter. “No,” said the mother, “if you want to learn how to dive, then you go right ahead and do it!” “Thanks mom!” said the daughter with great enthusiasm. The next day the young girl woke up early and went to where the young boys were training. She began to train with them. She noticed that the boys would train in pairs. At first she could not understand why, but in time she would learn the value in doing so. At first, the boys were reluctant to have her amongst them. But in time, when they saw how hard she worked she earned their respect and they let her train with them. Each morning for three months she trained with them. Then one day one of the boys approached her and said that if she would like they would train together. She was surprised that he had asked her for he was the best diver in their age group. She agreed. The training became real intensified after that. Many times she thought about quitting, and to her surprise found that on many occasions so did her partner. Each time one felt this way, they would talk and work it through.Then it was time for her first dive. She and the other new divers were taken partly up the mountain bluff. She watched as they dove off. Some would become afraid and climb back down. She decided it was time for her turn. She approached the cliff’s edge preparing herself to dive. Looking down it seemed an awfully long way, but it wasn’t. Her first reaction was to not to do it, and climb back down. Then she saw her mom standing on the beach with the rest of the villagers. Her mother gave her daughter a reassuring nod. That’s all the daughter needed. She took a deep breath and dove. Things were never quite the same in the small fishing village after that. Everyone would turn out to watch the young girl dive. As the days went by and with each dive the young girl improved. One day she found herself diving from half way up the cliff. She had surpassed many of the boys. Many people were surprised that she had gone as far as she had, but she was a determined and brave young girl. She found that the dive in itself was a small portion of the event. The daily physical and mental training was the real challenge. The climb to the diving perches alone was a feat in itself. Each time she dove from a new high point she was testing her courage and her competence. She learnt real quick not to be hasty and rush it. A few painful belly flops taught her to go slow and to do it right. The ocean waves would smash hard up against the cliff walls and occasionally someone upon a poor dive would be seriously hurt. One day after a bad dive her training partner had to pull her out of the water and up onto the beach. A month later, she had to do the same for him. The weeks turned into months, and the months into years, the young girl was now a young confident woman. One day she found herself standing at the highest point you could dive from. It was a spectacular view that moved her very much. “Life is good!” she thought to herself. She gazed far down and saw that most of the village people had turned out to watch her dive. It was a far way up and she knew her mother was somewhere down amongst the crowd. Standing next to her was the village leader. She looked at him and said, “Well this is it, we’ve climbed as high as we can go - Now what!” He looked at her, and with a twinkle in his eye said, “Now we teach and help those that are aspiring to reach the same attainment as we have.” The village watched in awe, normally the village leader had the glory of the last jump, but to their surprise he dove before the woman did. That day their was a new village leader. She became what she became through the right association of: effort, thought, concentration, diet, beliefs, and people. She became the village leader because she earned the respect and admiration of all, including the young man that would one day marry her. Unknowing to her, the day she had risked her life and jumped into the turbulent waves to save him was the day he had fully committed to her. Loving relationships are one’s in which each person involved brings out the best in the other and is one of personal growth and movement. |
 Timothy E. Stevenson 1995©
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